How to find out how sociable you are? Take a short psychological test.

This psychological test will help you get to know yourself better. Everything is very simple! Take a pen, a piece of paper and start answering questions.

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How to pass the sociability test?

Answer the questions you see below. After this, you will be able to draw amazing conclusions about your character, namely, your sociability.

Write down the question number and answer option that best matches your behavior and write down their indices (for example 1 a (where 1 is the question number and a is the answer option for this question), 2 in, 3 b etc.).

Recorded responses will be required for processing and displaying results.

The main condition is that all questions must be answered honestly and frankly. Now start asking questions.

Sociability Test Questions

1. If you are invited to visit a person whom you do not like, will you accept this invitation?

  • b) only in exceptional cases

2. Imagine that while visiting you you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave?

  • a) will not pay attention to him

  • b) you will answer only his questions

  • c) try to start a casual conversation with him

3. You were just about to ring the doorbell of your friends’ apartment. Suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen in the apartment. What will you do?

  • a) call anyway

  • b) wait until the dispute stops

4. What will you do if you are offered a dish you don’t like at a party?

  • a) despite your disgust, you eat this dish

  • b) tell the owners that you can’t eat it

  • c) complain of lack of appetite

5. Which sandwich from the table will you choose?

  • a) the best

  • b) the smallest

  • c) the one closest to you

6. What will you do if there is a sudden break in conversation in the company?

  • a) wait until someone starts a conversation on a new topic

  • b) find a topic yourself

7. Imagine that you are in an unpleasant situation at work or in some other environment. Will you tell your friends about this?

  • a) necessarily

  • b) only to friends

  • c) not a single person

8. Do you add anything from yourself to the stories you hear from others?

  • b) I add with very minor “improvements”

9. Do you carry a photograph of your beloved with you and willingly show it to others?

10. What will you do if, being in society, you don’t understand the joke being told?

  • a) laugh with others

  • b) remain serious

  • c) ask someone to explain the meaning of this joke

11. What will you do if, while in a company, you begin to feel a sharp headache?

  • a) you will endure

  • b) ask for a headache pill

  • c) will you go home

12. What will you do if, while visiting, you find out that a program will be broadcast on television that interests only you?

  • a) ask the owner to turn on the TV

  • b) start watching a TV show in the next room so as not to disturb the other guests

  • c) refuse the program you are interested in

13. You are visiting. When do you feel better?

  • a) when you entertain guests

  • b) when others entertain you

14. Do you have the habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party?

15. The correspondent interviews you:

  • a) are you happy if an interview with you is published in a newspaper?

  • b) would you like this to be a thing of the past?

  • c) all this is completely indifferent

16. Can you be impartial towards people you cannot stand?

  • a) definitely

  • b) only as an exception

  • c) haven’t thought about this question

17. Do you agree with the opinions of other people, even if it is fair, but unfavorable for you?

  • a) not always

  • b) only if it confirms your opinion

  • c) actually, why do this?

18. When do you stop arguing?

  • a) the sooner the better

  • b) when this dispute makes no sense

  • c) after you have convinced your opponent

  • a) with pleasure

  • b) if asked for it

  • c) in no case

20. Imagine that you live in the time of Rafa Monte Cristo, are sitting in an underground prison and suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. When will you start chatting with him?

  • a) as soon as possible

  • b) when you can no longer tolerate loneliness

  • c) never

21. Do you have a habit of celebrating the New Year in the main square of the city?

  • c) I always sleep on New Year’s Eve

Answer Key to Test Questions

Now take the answers you wrote down and use the table to add up the points you received next to each question.

Question number a) answer and rating option
question answer in points
b) answer and rating option
question answer in points
c) answer and rating option
question answer in points
1 20 5 8
2 0 5 25
3 5 10 0
4 10 0 5
5 0 5 10
6 5 15
7 30 5 0
8 15 5 0
9 0 5 10
10 0 5 10
11 5 10 0
12 0 5 10
13 20 5
14 0 5 10
15 10 0 5
16 15 5 0
17 25 5 0
18 0 5 10
19 0 5 10
20 20 5 0
21 5 0 10

Once you have found out your test score, find out the result of your score. To display the result, click “+” next to your result and read the report.

280 - 300 points

There is a suspicion that you did not always carefully read the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely.

Give it a second try: test yourself again.

200 - 280 points

You should be happy with yourself. At the very least, this applies to your communication abilities.

You willingly spend your free time among people and, conversely, are welcome in any society. You have a lively mind, are impressionable, a good listener and storyteller.

All these and some other abilities lead to the fact that you often become the center of attention.

100 - 200 points

Your attitude towards public life is not easy to determine.

On the one hand, you have qualities and inclinations that make you a pleasant member of society.

On the other hand, other qualities of your character seem to slow down the first ones. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society.

But, in any case, it is not easy for you to adapt to any environment. Your mood also corresponds to this.

But you often spend very pleasant hours among people you like.

50 - 100 points

As a rule, you like being alone. You feel much better in a narrow family or friendly circle than in a large company.

You appear to be an introvert. By the way, many famous personalities who went down in history often belonged to this category of people.

Less than 50 points

This result is not enough.

You need to try to be more sociable. Because you can’t explain to everyone that you are a complete introvert, that this property comes from nature.

Not understanding this, many people think: if he doesn’t want to talk to me, it means he treats me badly. And having “washed your bones,” two or three such critics will completely agree that you are a bad person.

You can, of course, ignore this if it doesn’t bother you.

But if it bothers you, try to develop your ability to communicate.

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Thank you very much for a wonderful marathon! I was only able to get up earlier for the first 1.5 weeks. Then the child got sick, and everything went wrong) But the most important thing is that I finally appreciated the thrill of morning loneliness, and I plan to continue this experience. It’s a pity that we were unable to participate in the online broadcasts due to the very large time difference. Although there was such an opportunity a couple of times, and in my afternoon I joined and relaxed with everyone else.
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Anyone can become a sociable and pleasant person, regardless of whether nature has endowed you with such talent or not. The art of communication is, first of all, working on yourself. First, evaluate yourself today and understand what needs to be changed in your character.
When answering each question, choose the appropriate answer: “Yes” (2 points), “Sometimes” (1 point), “No” (0 points).
  1. A personal or business meeting is coming up. Does her anticipation unsettle you?
  2. Do you put off visiting the doctor until it becomes unbearable?
  3. Does the assignment to deliver a report, message, information at any meeting, meeting, etc. cause you confusion and displeasure? event?
  4. You are offered to go on a business trip to a city where you have never been. Will you make every effort to avoid this business trip?
  5. Do you like to share your experiences with anyone?
  6. Do you get annoyed if a stranger on the street asks you to show the way, tell the time, answer some question?
  7. Do you believe that there is a problem of “fathers and sons” and that it is difficult for people of different generations to understand each other?
  8. Would you be embarrassed to remind a friend that he forgot to return the $30 he borrowed several months ago?
  9. Finding yourself face to face with a stranger, will you not enter into a conversation with him and will you be burdened by his presence if he speaks first?
  10. You are horrified by any long wait, anywhere. Would you rather give up your intention than languish in anticipation?
  11. Are you afraid to participate in conflict situations?
  12. You have your own purely individual assessments of works of literature, art, culture, and you do not accept any other people's opinions on this matter.
  13. If you hear somewhere expressing a clearly erroneous point of view on an issue that is well known to you, you will prefer to remain silent and not enter into an argument.
  14. Do you feel annoyed when someone asks you to help them understand a particular work issue or educational topic?
  15. Are you more willing to express your point of view (opinion, assessment) in writing than orally?
Now add up the points you have scored and evaluate the degree of your sociability.

30-32 points

You are clearly uncommunicative, and this is your problem, since you yourself suffer the most. But it’s not easy for those around you either. It is difficult to rely on you in a task that requires group effort. Try to be more sociable, control yourself.

25-29 points

You are reserved, taciturn, prefer solitude, and therefore you probably have few friends. A new job, the need for new contacts, if they don’t throw you into panic, then throw you out of balance for a long time. You know this peculiarity of yours, and it makes you dissatisfied. But you have the power to change your own character. Remember: doesn’t it sometimes happen that when you are very passionate about something, you suddenly acquire complete communication skills? So you just have to shake yourself up.

19-24 points

You are quite sociable and feel quite confident in unfamiliar surroundings. The problems that arise do not frighten you. And yet, you approach new people cautiously and are reluctant to participate in arguments and disputes. There is sometimes too much unfounded sarcasm in your statements. But all these shortcomings can be corrected, you just have to want it.

14-18 points

Your communication skills are normal. You are inquisitive, willingly listen to an interesting interlocutor, patient enough in communicating with others, defend your point of view without temper. You go to meet new people without any unpleasant experiences. At the same time, you don’t like noisy companies; extravagant antics and verbosity irritate you.

9-13 points

You are very sociable (sometimes, perhaps even too sociable). They are curious, talkative, and like to speak out on various issues (although sometimes this irritates others). Be willing to meet new people. You love to be the center of attention and do not refuse anyone’s requests, even if you are not always able to fulfill them. You may flare up, but quickly move away. What you lack is perseverance, patience and courage when faced with serious problems. If you want, however, you can quite force yourself not to retreat.

4-8 points

You must be a shirt guy. Sociability flows out of you, you are always aware of everything. Love to take part in discussions (even though serious topics can give you migraines and even blues). You willingly speak out on any issue, even if you have a superficial understanding of it. Everywhere you feel “at ease”. You take on any task, although you are not always able to complete it. For this reason, managers and colleagues treat you with some caution and doubt. It's worth thinking about.

Let's check how sociable you are, whether you like to communicate with peers and make new acquaintances, or perhaps you prefer to spend time alone with yourself.

Answer all the questions by choosing one of the options provided and learn something new about yourself.

1. A classmate with whom you do not have the best relationship came to you for help. Will you agree to help him?

Yes - 1 point. No - 0 points.

2. Do you like going to summer camp?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

3. Do you like to go to discos?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

4. Is it easy for you to meet people while on vacation?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

5. Are you always happy to meet a friend unexpectedly?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

6. Have you ever started a conversation with an unfamiliar peer in an elevator?

Yes - 1. No - oh.

7. Are you always happy to have guests?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

8. Do you have many friends?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

9. Do you want every weekend to be a holiday?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

10. Do you take part in competitions at any evenings?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

11. What about the names of Your neighbors? Do you know them?

Yes - 1. Hi - 0.

12. Do you agree that the main thing is not victory, but participation?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

13. Do you like communicating with people more than playing with the computer?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

14. Do you like helping someone?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

15. Do you eat what is offered at a party, even if it is not very tasty?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

16. Do you wish everyone happy holidays?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

17. Is there such a company in which everyone wants to communicate with You?

Yes 1. No - 0.

18. Do you like meeting new people?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

19. Do you feel confident in any company?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

20. Do you like to play with small children?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

21. What is easier for you: A: write a letter, B: call?

22. Do you find new friends easily?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

23. Did you have to pretend that you weren’t at home?

Yes - 0. No - 1.

24. Do friends often come to you or call you?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

25. Are you worried about “what others will think”?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

Calculate your points and write down the result.

Test results

Your result is 16-25 points? Congratulations! You are a very sociable person. Your circle of communication is truly huge. Any company will welcome You: everyone is glad to meet You. You have a unique gift of finding a common language with different people, even strangers: you will always find something to talk about. This ability will help you become a real leader.

If you scored from 8 to 15 points: You love and know how to communicate. However, you also like to be alone, to dream, to walk alone with yourself. It is unlikely that you need to strive to become a leader, to head some company. There is nothing wrong with this, because talking with a close friend is sometimes worth more than making many new acquaintances.

This psychological test will help you get to know yourself. By answering the questions, you will be able to draw some conclusions regarding your character and, in particular, your sociability.
Select the answers that most closely match your behavior and write down their indices (for example, 1a, 2b, 36, etc.). Records will be required to process the results.
Just remember that all questions must be answered honestly and frankly.
1. If you are invited to visit a person you do not like, will you accept this invitation?
a) yes
b) only in exceptional cases
c) no
2. Imagine that while visiting you you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave?
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a) will not pay attention to him
b) you will answer only his questions
c) try to start a casual conversation with him
3. You were just about to ring the doorbell of your friends’ apartment. Suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen in the apartment. What will you do?
a) call anyway
b) wait until the dispute stops
c) leave
4. What will you do if you are offered a dish you don’t like at a party?
a) despite your disgust, you eat this dish
b) tell the owners that you can’t eat it
c) complain of lack of appetite
5. Which sandwich from the table will you choose?
a) the best
b) the smallest
c) the one closest to you
6. What will you do if there is a sudden break in conversation in the company?
a) wait until someone starts a conversation on a new topic
b) find a topic yourself
7. Imagine that you are in an unpleasant situation at work or in some other environment. Will you tell your friends about this?
a) necessarily
b) only to friends
c) not a single person
8. Do you add anything from yourself to the stories you hear from others?
a) yes
b) I add with very minor “improvements”
c) no
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9. Do you carry a photograph of your beloved with you and willingly show it to others?
a) yes
b) sometimes
c) never
10. What will you do if, being in society, you don’t understand the joke being told?
a) laugh with others
b) remain serious
c) ask someone to explain the meaning of this joke
11. What will you do if, while in a company, you begin to feel a sharp headache?
a) you will endure
b) ask for a headache pill
c) will you go home
12. What will you do if, while visiting, you find out that a program will be broadcast on television that interests only you?
a) ask the owner to turn on the TV
b) start watching a TV show in the next room so as not to disturb the other guests
c) refuse the program you are interested in
13. You are visiting. When do you feel better?
a) when you entertain guests
b) when others entertain you
14. Do you have the habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party?
a) no
b) sometimes
c) yes
15. The correspondent interviews you:
a) are you happy if an interview with you is published in a newspaper?
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b) would you like this to be a thing of the past?
c) all this is completely indifferent
16. Can you be impartial towards people you cannot stand?
a) definitely
b) only as an exception
c) haven’t thought about this question
17. Do you agree with the opinions of other people, even if it is fair, but unfavorable for you?
a) not always
b) only if it confirms your opinion
c) actually, why do this?
18. When do you stop arguing?
a) the sooner the better
b) when this dispute makes no sense
c) after you have convinced your opponent
19. If you know poetry, will you read them in public?
a) with pleasure
b) if asked for it
c) in no case
20. Imagine that you live in the time of the Count of Monte Cristo, are sitting in an underground prison and suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. When will you start chatting with him?
a) as soon as possible
b) when you can no longer tolerate loneliness
c) never
21. Do you have a habit of celebrating the New Year in the main square of the city?
a) yes
b) no
c) I always sleep on New Year’s Eve
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Key to Answering Questions
Number Options answers i i estimates
question
answers in points
A b V
1 20 5 8
2 0 5 25
3 5 10 0
4 10 0 5
5 0 5 10
6 5 15 -
7 30 5 0
8 15 5 0
9 0 5 10
10 0 5 10
11 5 ¦ 10 0
12 0 5 10
13 20 5 -
14 0 5 15
15 10 0 5
16 15 5 0
17 25 5 0
18 0 5 10
19 0 5 10
20 20 5 0
21 5 0 10

Evaluation of results
280-300 points
There is a suspicion that you did not always carefully read the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely. Give it a second try: test yourself again.
200-280 points
You should be happy with yourself. At the very least, this applies to your communication abilities. You willingly spend your free time among people and, conversely, are welcome in any society. You have a lively mind, are impressionable, a good listener and storyteller. All these and some others
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abilities lead to you often becoming the center of attention.
100-200 points
Your attitude towards public life is not easy to determine. On the one hand, you have qualities and inclinations that make you a pleasant member of society. On the other hand, other qualities of your character seem to slow down the first ones. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society. But, in any case, it is not easy for you to adapt to any environment. Your mood also corresponds to this. But you often spend very pleasant hours among people you like.
50-100 points
As a rule, you like being alone. In a narrow family or friendly circle you feel much better than in a large company. You appear to be an introvert. By the way, many famous personalities who went down in history often belonged to this category of people.
Less than 50 points
This result is not enough. You need to try to be more sociable. Because you can’t explain to everyone that you are a complete introvert, that this property comes from nature. Not understanding this, many people think: if he doesn’t want to talk to me, it means he treats me badly. And having “washed your bones,” two or three such critics will completely agree that you are a bad person. You can, of course, ignore this if it doesn’t bother you. But if it bothers you, try to develop your ability to communicate.